Published in Sexography·Nov 27Member-onlyI Found My DominantSome of us want a different kind of love — I devoured steamy, bodice-ripping romance novels as a teen. The heroine is always a virgin. Her brave knight rescues her from some sort of trouble, and later “takes her” in bed. She swoons and nearly faints at the sight of an erect penis, having had no previous sex education whatsoever…Relationships9 min readRelationships9 min read
Published in Sexography·Oct 24Member-onlyThe Talk That Ended Our MarriageTrying to save a 14-year relationship for years, and finally breaking up — No one can say I didn’t try. Well, except my husband. My soon-to-be-ex-husband, I mean. He accused me of not trying to save our relationship. He said it to me a little over a month ago, when he started a conversation I wasn’t expecting. To be clear, I wasn’t expecting…Relationships9 min readRelationships9 min read
Published in Sexography·Aug 29Member-onlyI Smell Sex and GummiesOur first time making love while high was a transformative experience — The gummy hits when we’re lounging in the pool. I’m floating — both literally and metaphorically — as my arms wrap around his shoulders and my legs wrap around his waist and he pins me against the wall. He kisses me like he’s dying of thirst and I’m water. …Sexuality8 min readSexuality8 min read
Published in Heart Affairs·Updated Jul 24Member-onlyMy Dom Sexts Me And I Lose My MindI’ve dubbed Sir the Hemingway of erotica — and his sexual prowess holds up to his literary prowess, word for word. — Since I’ve stepped into polyamory and connected with the most loving partner I’ve ever experienced (who also happens to be an incredibly talented Dominant), my life has been irrevocably changed for the better. It’s a brand new chapter in my life with Sir — who is such a multifaceted and…Relationships9 min readRelationships9 min read
Published in Heart Affairs·Updated Jul 18Member-onlyThe First Night With My New DomPolyamory feeds my desire for being a submissive. — It was actually our second night together. Our first overnight date — the first time my poly partner made love to me — was life-changing. But this was our first night together after starting the process of establishing our D/s dynamic. After a date on a riverboat and then off…Polyamory9 min readPolyamory9 min read
Published in Heart Affairs·Updated Jun 4Member-onlyHaving You For The First TimeThe deepest connection I’ve ever experienced. — The first time you make love to me, you aren’t a bit hesitant. You’re not shy, awkward, or bumbling. Maybe you do struggle with feeling anxious. Maybe you tremble inside as I do. But if so, you hide it well. Where do you get your confidence and control? …Sexuality6 min readSexuality6 min read
Published in Sexography·Mar 29Member-onlySex With My Polyamorous LoverOur first time together was a game-changer — He knocked on the door just as I was attempting to do something with my hair. It was still wet, curling in long, damp waves around my face. I barely had enough time to finish cleaning the house, shower, dress, and throw on a little eye makeup. Styling my hair…Relationships10 min readRelationships10 min read
Published in Sexography·Mar 14Member-onlyMy First Polyamorous Date Since Opening UpDinner, drinks, and passion with a man who’s not my husband — This past week, I went on my very first date since my husband and I opened up our relationship. I had all sorts of nervous feelings about a romantic outing with a man who is not my husband, mostly stemming from my own insecurities about my awkwardness and body issues. …Polyamory7 min readPolyamory7 min read
Published in Sexography·Mar 3Member-onlyStepping Into Polyamory With My Husband After 13 YearsOpening up our marriage and exploring ethical non-monogamy — My husband and I have had a lot of issues. We’ve gotten close to divorce on more than one occasion. Closer than most couples who are still together ever get. We’ve been together for about thirteen years and married for just over one. …Relationships7 min readRelationships7 min read
Published in Feedium·Feb 7Member-onlyI Disagreed With Tom Kuegler On TwitterNo, debating a popular Medium writer does NOT make me a troll — Whether you’re a fan of their work or not, I’m of the personal opinion that you have to give props to big Medium bloggers like Tom Kuegler. Tom’s Medium success is literally legendary. He’s 28 years old, travels the world, has a successful blog on Medium with 55,000 followers, and…Mentorship8 min readMentorship8 min read
