Published in Sexography·5 days agoMember-onlyIf You Think Your Wife’s a Nag, She’s Probably Going to Leave You SoonTurning heartache to joy after exiting two unhappy marriages — If you think your wife’s a “nag,” chances are she’s already got one foot out the door. Trust me, I’ve been married twice, and both of those marriages disintegrated. Each time, I was the one who wanted out. …Relationships6 min readRelationships6 min read
Published in The Generator·Mar 15Member-onlyRelationship Writer and AI Newbie Tests ChatGPT for Intimacy TipsEthics, plagiarism, and a wee bit of human perspective — I write this after midnight, a steamy mug of fresh hot chocolate at my side. Maybe not the healthiest late-night beverage — but as a nocturnal writer, I’ll celebrate the small victory that I’m not nursing a very full glass of wine. I’m a millennial who has never engaged an…AI6 min readAI6 min read
Published in Sexography·Mar 14Member-onlyI Shared a Simultaneous Orgasm With My Partner for the Very First TimeA personal study on how to “come” together — Lately, I’ve been having sex more often and experiencing more physical and emotional fulfillment than I ever have with previous partners. I have to give credit where credit is due. I’m having amazing, world-shifting sex because I now have a partner who is comfortable with communicating all about sex. He…Sex8 min readSex8 min read
Published in Sexography·Mar 9Member-onlyHe Gave My Clit a Blow Job and It Rocked My Entire UniverseThis rarely talked-about oral sex technique can give your partner with a vulva mind-blowing orgasms and create a deeper bond — I’ve recently begun my own sexual revolution. What started as a much-anticipated journey into polyamory turned into finding a partner who fulfills my every need and desire — and then some. The past 10 months have been highly eventful as far as learning new ways that my body loves to…Sex8 min readSex8 min read
Published in Bare Naked Bradshaw·Mar 2Member-only7 Keys to Having the Best Sex of Your LifeEnhancing intimacy and pleasure with communication, play, and zero pressure in the bedroom — When it comes to sexual satisfaction (or dissatisfaction), I’ve run the whole gamut. Awful sex, boring sex, just okay sex, and now — mind-bending, earth-shattering, amazing sex. I’ve experienced all of it — with earth-shattering being the most recent and ongoing phenomenon, I’m happy to report. I’m having more sex…Sex6 min readSex6 min read
Published in Sexography·Feb 21Member-onlyTelling Your Kids About Your Sexual Revolution in an Age-Appropriate WayI speak openly to my teen about my exploration of sex and polyamory — When my front door opened unexpectedly one afternoon, I assumed it was my husband coming home early from work. It wasn’t an unusual occurrence for him. I was sitting on the couch chatting with my new partner. He was someone I’d been dating for a while — a married father…Sexuality9 min readSexuality9 min read
Published in Sexography·Feb 17Member-onlyWhy This Feminist Calls Him “Daddy” in BedMy evolution in submission and BDSM — I always suspected I was kinky. Even as a kid, I enjoyed playing pirates and being “captured” by little boys on the playground. In my mind, jump ropes were better suited for tying up prisoners to the tether ball poll than jumping. I always wanted to be the prisoner, of…Sexuality5 min readSexuality5 min read
Published in Moments·Feb 13Member-onlyI Quit My Corporate Job to Write More About Sex — and Other ThingsBrave creativepreneur or common midlife crisis? You decide! — Less than two weeks ago, my boss met with me over Teams to reprimand me for sending her an unprofessional email. I was genuinely confused. I pulled up the email in question, read it over, and asked her what language she found disrespectful — because I had no clue. “The…Corporate Culture7 min readCorporate Culture7 min read
Published in Heart Affairs·Updated Feb 10Member-onlyThe Taser Incident Inspired Me to Leave My MarriageI was shocked — literally. — “Honey, do we have a flashlight anywhere?” I asked my husband one evening. “I need to look down my throat and see if something crazy is going on.” A flashlight down the throat isn’t a typical request from your spouse, but I was recovering from a tonsillectomy to help with…Marriage9 min readMarriage9 min read
Published in Sexography·Jan 5Member-onlyI Had My First PIV Orgasm at 36 Years OldIt took the right partner to make it happen — Until very recently, no one has ever been able to make me climax through PIV (penis in vagina) sex. And I’ve never even been able to give myself a vaginal orgasm while I masturbated — try as I might. As a 36-year-old woman who has shared intimacy with multiple partners…Sex8 min readSex8 min read
